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So
You Decided to Get Married!
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Types
of Wedding Photographers.
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Student/Friend/Uncle Bob Wedding
Photographer
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Photojournalistic Wedding Photographer
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Artistic Wedding Photographer
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Jack of All Trades Wedding Photographer
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Finding
a Wedding Photographer
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Difference
Between Packages and Services for Weddings.
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Old School
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New School
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Booking
your Wedding.
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Selecting
the Ceremony Location for Great Pictures.
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Selecting
the Venue for Great Pictures.
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When
to get Married for the Best Pictures.
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Planning
your Day.
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Looking
Your Best
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Pre-check
Flight List
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Ready
at the House.
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Set
at the Ceremony.
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Go
at the Reception.
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Formal
Pictures.
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Candids.
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Uncle
Bobs.
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Saying
Goodbye.
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The
Post Game.
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Wedding
Album Types.
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Putting
together the Album, it’s a Team Effort!
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Online
Album Providers.
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Printing
your Own Pictures.
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Special
Notes for Wedding Photography in Fairfield County.
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Special
Notes for Wedding Photography in Putnam County.
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Special
Notes for Wedding Photography in Rockland County.
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Special
Notes for Wedding Photography in Westchester County.
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Congratulations
on your engagement, and welcome to your second job for the next
several months. And
this is how you should look at it, since in most cases a lot of
time and effort will go into the wedding of your dreams.
This guide is meant to help you minimize the stress and
research regarding one of the most important parts of the
wedding, wedding photography.
Much like
any profession, there are several flavors of wedding
photographers. Every
one is a right choice for someone, it really comes down to what
you are looking for at the end of the day.
This type of
photographer is usually chosen by those with really small
weddings, a very small budget or a personal choice that pictures
are not important to them. Just
keep in mind you do ‘get what you pay for’, and while a
student or relative may turn out to be an incredible
photographer, odds are this won’t happen.
Weddings, although seeming chaotic, are usually very well
organized and an experienced photographer will know where and
when to be in the proper spot.
In addition, such photographers are usually weak on
posing for formals, if that is something you are looking for.
Photojournalistic
wedding photographers have come into their own in the last few
years as digital cameras have lowered the cost of taking
opportune pictures to near zero.
A photojournalistic wedding photographer is one who tries
to capture the flavor of the day, without being directly in it.
Most photojournalistic wedding photographers do not
usually do a lot of formals, but just take a lot of pictures of
the event as it unfolds. This
is a good choice for those couples who may not like the
lime-light, or don’t feel comfortable in front of the camera.
An artistic
wedding photographer is focused more on setting up scenes
directly, than letting them unfold naturally.
Often when you see pictures of couples under trees, or in
romantic poses, this is the work of an artistic wedding
photographer. This
wedding photographer is for those couples who are comfortable in
front of the camera and who want to spend a good part of their
day taking pictures. Often
a good part of the cocktail hour, and several other parts of the
day will be spent taking pictures, since these types of poses do
take up a lot of time to set up.
It is also suggested you book a makeup artist to maximize
the experience. Most
big name photographers fall under this category.
A
jack-of-all-trades wedding photographer can be either a
photojournalistic or artistic wedding photographer, but does not
specialize in either. Often
this is the best photographer to get if you want to take some
pictures at the house and spend an hour before the cocktail hour
taking pictures, but other than that don’t want to be
bothered. I am
personally in this category.
Wedding
photography is a very competitive field and the advertising
money which goes into it is significant.
Between online advertising, blogs, wedding sites and
wedding shows, not to mention your best friend, you will be
exposed to many different photographers with many different
styles. Your first
step should be education as to all the different aspects of
wedding photography. Your
next step is to narrow down the field based on style and price.
Some resources which can help you with this are below:
www.westchester.com
www.westchester-weddings.com
Much like
there are many different types of photographers, there are many
different packages and services you will have an option to
choose from.
The old
school packages, still the majority, offer a set amount of
service for a set price, and an album of a certain size.
Often these packages will include mini-albums for
parents. In
addition, these packages do not include the negatives, and
re-prints are of a significant cost.
Most studios who have been around for more than a few
years offer these packages.
When considering these packages, it is important to
realize there is often a post-sell on the album, as the one
offered may seem to have a lot of pictures, but when you realize
how many you have to choose from, additional sides and spreads
will be ordered. This
is not to say this is right or wrong, but it is often what
occurs.
One of the
nicer aspects of old school photography is that often every
picture in the album is enhanced in photo-shop with blemishes
and airbrushing. Many
special affects can be applies, and often are in these albums,
leading to the creation of a work of art, rather than just a
photo album.
The advent
of digital photography and the tools surrounding them offers new
possibilities in deliverables.
The most common is the ‘Shoot and Burn’, which is to
say the photographer shoots the wedding and then burns the
images to a DVD or CD. What
happens in between is what’s important to you.
Ideally, you want a photographer who culls the bad shots,
and then white balances and exposure corrects the rest.
Some don’t, and you end up with many repetitive and
boring shots off color and poorly exposed.
Once you
have the DVD, you can order to your heart’s content off of it
assuming they are the full resolution images.
One way to check this is to ask what the file size is.
Anything over 1 megabyte will be fine for up to 11x14.
Some digital
photographers also offer digital art options, which can turn
your picture into at art piece, much like what old school
photographers do with album pictures.
Some studios offer to put pictures on trinkets such as
cups and shirts, though this photographer does find that a bit
on the tacky side.
Finally, one
of the new products just now coming into its own are press
printed books. These
hard/soft covered books are digitally designed with the images
directly printed on the pages.
The pages are not matted like you would find in a
traditional album, but are thin, much like you would find in a
magazine.
Although the
print quality does not rival real prints, this offers a very
affordable choice to many, with prices averaging 1/3 the price
of a regular album, and reprints of the entire album often being
under $100 (perfect for mom and dad!)
These
services are often open to the public, though not as many
services may be offered as it would be to a professional
photographer. Examples
are www.mpix.com and www.sharedink.com.
So you’ve
decided on your photographer and you now want to book.
Most photographers will ask for 1/3 non-refundable at the
time of deposit. Others
will ask for less (I ask for $100 deposit), some ask for more ½.
I would suggest staying away from anyone asking ½ or
more, as it puts you in an especially vulnerable position.
Although the vast majority of photographers are on the
up-and-up, there are scammers around, especially when you are
dealing with such large amounts of money.
One thing
you definitely want to receive is a contract.
This is both to protect you, but also protects the
photographer. You
likely also want to make sure the photographer is a LLC or
S-Corp, as most scammers will not take this step.
Another
question you should ask is whose taking the pictures.
If you see albums of a photographer in a large studio you
really like, make sure you ask for that photographer and that
fact is in your contract. Often
large studios will showcase their best 2-3 shooters, but have a
free-lance pool of a dozen photographers. This is not to say
they are not good photographers, but it isn’t what you are
buying.
For small
studios or single shooters, often they are the only photographer
but the question is worth asking anyway.
You should also ask what experience their assistant has
(if there is one) in shooting weddings, so if the photographers
car breaks down or a bad thing happens, their assistant can fill
in if needed.
You have a
photographer, but the photographer can only work with what
he’s given as far as location.
Many times the location for the ceremony is
non-negotiable. You’ll
get married in your family’s church or temple, or at the
reception venue. However,
if you have a choice, this is what you want to look for:
- Ample
lighting.
A no-brainer, but often forgotten.
Although a church may seem to have light in it,
cameras need a certain amount of light to work without a
flash, which often is prohibited at most religious
ceremonies. Also,
even if flash is permitted, often a cavernous church or
temple makes using it very difficult and leads to the cave
effect of the foreground being bright and the background
being dark. To
account for this, pick a venue with large windows allowing a
lot of natural light. The
more light, the less flash, and better pictures.
- A
nice décor.
Again, a simple statement but often ignored.
Select a venue with light colored walls and ceilings
if possible, and a background which isn’t overly busy.
Ideally, it will have interesting features inside
(large staircase, full windows, couches) which will allow
for some pictures to be taken inside.
- Clean
background outside.
Many times, churches and temples just do not have any
location outside to shoot at which doesn’t have cars,
wires, or signs outside.
You want to pick
a place with greenery or a clear background for some
quick formals.
Unlike the
venue for a religious ceremony, you do have a choice of your
venue. Although many
other factors do come into play when picking a reception all
(location, quality, and of course cost) one of your primary
drivers should be how the reception venue is configured for
pictures. Some of
the obvious things to look for are:
- Formal/Artistic
Pictures Locations: You
don’t want to have to take your formal pictures in the
parking lot. Make
sure you have, either inside or outside, a place to take
formal pictures which will allow room for your largest group
AND your photographer. The
more green, the better.
The more unusual objects (statues, interesting trees,
benches, a fountain) the better.
However, don’t fall in love with a river site or a
lake-side venue whose only attribute is the river or the
lake. If it is a
cloudy day, or a sunny day, the sky will end up being white
and your pictures will end up being boring.
Best to pick a pond.
- Windows
are great, except at sundown.
Windows will lighten up the room allowing for more
natural pictures to be taken, and are generally something
you should look for. The
exception to this rule is if you are having an evening
wedding, you want to make sure the sun will not be entering
the room at a low angle.
Not only will this blind the guests looking out the
window (if they don’t drop the blinds) but will fill the
room with a yellow tinted light.
It will also produce heavy shadows which aren’t
generally preferred.
- Indoor
venues for formals/artistic shots:
Needed for both variety and if you have a nighttime
wedding, indoor locations such as staircases, pianos,
couches and niches will allow the photographer a lot more
creative freedom in creating your picture.
- White
ceilings and paint:
The lighter the ceiling and walls, the more natural your
pictures will be, as the flash on a camera picks up a lot of
the natural color of the room when reflected.
Green walls, green face.
You ideally want the ceiling to be about 12-15 feet
high, any higher it is hard to bounce flash, any lower, too
much light is focused in one place.
- Easy
access:
If everyone is young and fit, having a wedding in an
old lodge is a wonderful thing but if Grandma is invited,
how is she going to get there?
The best
time to get married, in regards to lighting, is 1-2 hours before
sunset (unless you have a full mass.)
You want to leave enough time so that the ceremony and an
hour of formals (don’t forget the time taken to disengage from
your guests) ends about one half hour before sunset.
You do not want to get married outside or take pictures
outside between the hours of 10am to 3pm, as that is when the
sun is the highest and the shadows the harshest.
The exception to this is if you will have shade where you
want to take the pictures where the background is dark.
Taking pictures under a tree with a bright background
will mean you’ll look like you were standing under a tree
under a spot light, and is not advised.
The day of,
you are going to have a million and one things going on, so it
is best to plan everything in advance.
Regarding photography, this means confirming with the
photographer the schedule a few days in advance and confirming
your address with him if he is coming to the house.
You should also identify someone who can help with the
formals, as the photographer will not know who Uncle Jim is as
opposed to Uncle Bob. If
you have any important shots you want, this person is
responsible for reminding the photographer, who you’ve
hopefully also given your must-have sheet.
Most photographers will get all the normal shots as a
matter of course, so it is really only necessary to include
shots with aunts/uncles/godparents/friends as these tend to be
outside the normal flow of events.
I suggest
that along with your hair being done, you also have make-up
professionally applies. Guys,
I’m even talking to you. Let
someone who knows powder your bald spot so you don’t look like
you are literally glowing from the wedding.
This is
strictly concerning issues with the photographer.
You should have all this laid out the night before:
- Photographer’s
number
- An
extra copy of directions (we occasionally forget them)
- A
cheat sheet of the schedule
- Your
list of needed pictures
- Touch-up
make up.
The number
one rule of being ready at the house is be ready at the house
when the photographer comes.
Otherwise, you may very well be paying for the
photographer to sit on your couch!
Now this doesn’t apply to everyone of course, the bride
is usually the last one to be ready, but many times I’ve
gotten to the house with nobody dressed or even nobody there and
everyone still at the hair salon.
It unfortunately means that when you are ready, the
photographer has that much less time to take various pictures
before the limo comes and whisks them away.
Ok, you’re
just minutes from being man and wife.
Nothing special here, just relax, it will be all right!
The only photographic note is don’t rush down the aisle
in anticipation and make sure there is decent separation between
your brides maids. You
want to leave about 30 seconds between each individual starting
down the aisle. This
will leave the photographer enough time to take some great
pictures of each person. Bride,
walk SLOWELY and remind your dad to smile.
From this point on, it’s the officiates show, so
we’ll defer to them.
Congratulations,
you are now man and wife! Now
enjoy your day, but first, some formal pictures at a park or the
reception venue. Make
sure you properly plan this out giving enough time between
locations with moderate traffic congestion.
Formal
pictures can be horrifying or fun, depending on the couple and
photographer. The
most important thing is to have fun with this, let your
personality come through and don’t hold back.
Unless you are someone who always stands around not
smiling, of course. I
suggest the following tips for preparing and going through
formal pictures
- Practice
smiling both individually and together in the mirror.
Corney, I know, but it will relax you and give you
confidence you will take great pictures.
- If
you have to pee, make sure you pee before the formals.
- If
water is not provided, bring your own.
A tux and a gown are hot, and you don’t want to
become dehydrated. I would suggest putting some bottled
water in the limo.
- Don’t
overdo the tan. I
know it’s tempting, but it’s a bad tan you’ll have for
the rest of your life.
- Bring
your make-up kit and a small towel.
Hey, we all sweat, we just don’t want pictures of
it.
- Don’t
let a stubborn relative rain on the parade.
If someone is being difficult, ignore them, they are
just in a few of your pictures.
- Make
sure nobody wanders. This
is one of the biggest problems in that someone goes
wandering away and everyone has to wait 10 minutes to find
them. Make sure
everyone stays around whose in the formals so you all can
finish as soon as possible.
Again, MAKE SURE EVERYONE STAYS AROUND.
Put someone in charge of this and give them a whiffle
ball bat to help herd offenders or this rule.
- Relax
and have fun. The
most important thing is to enjoy yourself, this is your
wedding day.
Not much to
say here. By there
very nature, they just happen.
Only thing is, when dancing or cutting the cake, make
sure you look together at the photographer.
Somewhat of
an inside joke between photographers, Uncle Bobs are those
guests who have SLR cameras and want to, for themselves or for
you, get involved in the action.
Although we all appreciate their enthusiasm, or empathize
with trying to build a portfolio,
there is a time and a place.
During the reception and the walk down the aisle,
that’s the time and the place.
During the formals and the house (where applicable), that
is not. Most
photographers will in fact have clauses in their contract
preventing anyone else taking professionally quality pictures
during the event. I
personally don’t, but I do try to prevent people from taking
any pictures during the formals.
It’s not because I want to be the exclusive provider
and make money on the re-prints (I provide all images on DVD),
but it’s because the more cameras there are, the more places
there are to look at. And
when that happens, you end up with pictures with eyes going to
different locations, which is something we all don’t want.
In my case,
if there is a lot of time, I will take my picture, and then
allow others to take theirs for group shots, but I do ask that
the couple pictures are taken by myself, without anyone else
even around. This
makes for a more relaxed atmosphere, and better pictures.
All good
things must come to an end, and at some point it will be time
for your photographer to leave.
Often, this is after the cake cutting.
Make sure once this happens you remember to ask the
photographer for any final pictures which came to mind so you
get them. After
that, enjoy your honeymoon.
Once back
from your honeymoon, if taken, you and your photographer will
talk to each other again. At
this point, if you simply are getting images on DVD, that will
be provided and you’ll be able to enjoy your pictures.
For old school photographers, now you start talking about
the album.
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There are
quite a few companies now which allow you to design and create
your albums online. www.mpix.com
and www.sharedink.com
are but two of many. I
suggest you just google ‘Online Wedding Albums’ to get
started. You may not
have the flexibility of design you would have with a studio, but
you can get albums at 30% to 50% of the cost.
Be it
pictures your photographer gave you, or your guests, you will
have the option to print your pictures.
There are thousands of places to do this, from www.walmart.com
to www.cvs.com and www.cosco.com,
to photolabs such as www.mpix.com,
www.ofoto.com and www.snapfish.com.
I suggest picking about 10 pictures from various stages
of your wedding and sending them in to several places, and
seeing what type you end up liking the most.
For 5x7’s
and 8x10s, you’ll also have to keep in mind cropping.
A 35mm image, which in most cases what you’ll be
receiving is in a 2:3 ratio.
Other sizes are different, which means you’ll have to
crop off some of the image to get it to fit, or add a border to
fit the whole image.
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